Study to success
Leader of the Anti HSC English Party
Idk after suffering so much from mental health I’ve just prioritised it over everything else and I’d rather have peace than get into a good uni especially if there are other paths to my career. Cause having a peace of mind ik will give me much more fulfilment and joy than stressing myself out. So I’ve just being trying to avoid being stressed at all costs. Plus if regardless ur atar, u still get the same jobs as others like what’s the point of destroying ur mental health. Obv if u want to do law or med then it’s a different story but if not it’s fineIdk gaslight urself into thinking none of this counts. And throughout ur day just try to distract urself. Ik these are really bad tips but idk what else to do
also reverse psych but if u think ur nervousness will affect ur ability to do well then thinking of alternative paths will alleviate ur stress and you’ll actually be more likely to get straight into uni that way. Cause if u stress abt wanting to get into uni straight away that will actually be counter productive and the opposite may happen. So as long as it doesn’t affect ur productivity this could work
like I’d rather have a semi decent job than a high paying job where I’ll have to stress my whole childhood/ adulthood
also i like to look at what will give me the most happiness but will also allow me to live decently. For me personally, getting the same jobs, but the path to getting there be different/ longer will give me much more happiness then stressing out to get straight into uni and then ending up with the same job than if I had taken a different route.
srry for yapping cause I just want to voice my opinions but also the main reason why I want a good job is for money which is supposedly meant to lead me to happiness. But I have found that money cannot buy happiness so as long as I’m not broke I don’t need success if it’s not going to bring me happiness. Cause for me that’s the root reason why I’m trying to do well in the hsc but now I’m realising that it’s not the only way to it. So finding the root reason for ur ambitions may help u decide whether or not it really is necessary and whether or not u need to change ur mindset to reduce stress
anyways that’s my insights on this. Srry for the long yap
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