art.theclown
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So there's this guy in one of my classes. We met around February and now we're friends. I have grown to have a crush on him. He does things like message me everyday, send me little voice notes, tease me, walk with me during our breaks, and he listens to everything I do. Once I had a rather upsetting encounter with another guy, and my friend (the one I like) helped me get through it. He asked if I needed anything and that I should probably listen to his advice next time. That's the main gist of it, but yeah.
In four weeks time, our class will end, and I most probably will never see him again, so I was planning to confess my feelings to him on the last day. But unfortunately, that did not go as planned. Yesterday, I was in a gc with some of my friends on insta and we were talking about how I like him and what I should do. One of my friends (not my close friend) suggested that we add him to the group for fun and I said sure. I was an idiot, because I did not realise new people could see previous messages and apparently, the friend who suggested we add him to the group did know.
He joins the group. Then he sends a voice not on the gc. "Hey, before you add someone to the group, you should probably check to see if they can see past messages. I don't mind that you (me) like me." As soon as I heard that, I left the gc. I left other gcs and I was about to unfollow him too before one of my closest friends told me not to and to breathe.
Then my friends go on a call with me and I'm sobbing my life out because it's so embarrassing. One of my not so close friends suggests we add him to the call. I say no and if she does, I would leave. She ignores me and adds him anyways. I leave.
Now, my closest friend calls me back and tells me to take a breather and that she'd tell me everything that would happen in the call. I agree. The next day (today) she tells me everything. He said that he had suspicions about me liking him and he caught on a few weeks ago. He also said that he feels bad because he doesn't want to hurt my feelings and that he views me as one of his close friends. He says that he's worried about me and asked her if I was okay.
Also, when I woke up this morning, I got a message from him at around 12am saying "Hey, are you okay? I don't want things to be awkward between us." I left him on read.
I'm completely embarrassed. And honestly, I don't even care if he likes me or not (I know he probs doesn't like me with the way he's going). I just feel stupid for thinking he'd like me. I also am kind of mad at him for leading me on. But my friend said that he never clearly stated if he liked me or not (like I said, I don't think he does.)
I'm thinking of just ignoring him. I only have 4 more weeks left anyways, but I kind of want closure.
What should I do?
Holy shit, this is the longest I've ever written.
In four weeks time, our class will end, and I most probably will never see him again, so I was planning to confess my feelings to him on the last day. But unfortunately, that did not go as planned. Yesterday, I was in a gc with some of my friends on insta and we were talking about how I like him and what I should do. One of my friends (not my close friend) suggested that we add him to the group for fun and I said sure. I was an idiot, because I did not realise new people could see previous messages and apparently, the friend who suggested we add him to the group did know.
He joins the group. Then he sends a voice not on the gc. "Hey, before you add someone to the group, you should probably check to see if they can see past messages. I don't mind that you (me) like me." As soon as I heard that, I left the gc. I left other gcs and I was about to unfollow him too before one of my closest friends told me not to and to breathe.
Then my friends go on a call with me and I'm sobbing my life out because it's so embarrassing. One of my not so close friends suggests we add him to the call. I say no and if she does, I would leave. She ignores me and adds him anyways. I leave.
Now, my closest friend calls me back and tells me to take a breather and that she'd tell me everything that would happen in the call. I agree. The next day (today) she tells me everything. He said that he had suspicions about me liking him and he caught on a few weeks ago. He also said that he feels bad because he doesn't want to hurt my feelings and that he views me as one of his close friends. He says that he's worried about me and asked her if I was okay.
Also, when I woke up this morning, I got a message from him at around 12am saying "Hey, are you okay? I don't want things to be awkward between us." I left him on read.
I'm completely embarrassed. And honestly, I don't even care if he likes me or not (I know he probs doesn't like me with the way he's going). I just feel stupid for thinking he'd like me. I also am kind of mad at him for leading me on. But my friend said that he never clearly stated if he liked me or not (like I said, I don't think he does.)
I'm thinking of just ignoring him. I only have 4 more weeks left anyways, but I kind of want closure.
What should I do?
Holy shit, this is the longest I've ever written.