ellurbee
Well-Known Member
I was going to give my advice... but given past experiences, i fear i won't help your caseMy mum and I fight a lot and she always seems to bring up the line: "I'm always the villain in your eyes" and I genuinely have had enough. we argue over stupid shit sometimes (this was one of those time, and I'll admit, I was an asshole in this situation cause my mum asked me to do smth i thought was my dad's task) and because we both have tempers we start arguing and she keeps bringing up when I was more obedient and she keeps half wishing on my downfall and atp I'm wondering if I should use the "I'm always the villain in your eyes" line against my mum, because her response will solidify how she thinks of me, even if it's a heat of the moment thing.


I dunno i think you should gesture to it a bit? kinda speaking your mind. But if you want it to stick maybe try talking to her when she's calmed down? Or when you are both chill cause unnecessary things can be said in the heat of the moment on both sides.
maybe just ask her to hear you out? I dunno what your mum is like but normally if you just say- lemme talk please, and just listen- maybe she'll hear you out?